It’s ironic how we think we are doing the right thing making the right decisions, and yet we find ourselves stuck in a holding pattern that we think will change as long as we just keep trying harder.
This invisible pattern we want to liberate ourselves from (that we don’t even realize exists), keeps us doing the same thing in just a variety of different ways, causing life to get harder, more complicated, and unhappier.
That was S. She knew that if she just worked hard enough, helped enough, got all her t’s crossed and i’s dotted she would feel fulfilled and happy. This is what she was taught from a young age (and most of us have been taught this, too).
She was recognized, approved, and shown love when she performed…got A’s, received a prestigious degree, got a good job, married and had a family.
But under it all, she knew there was something more for her…she always did the “right thing,” but now that wasn’t working for her. It was only making her feel empty, numb and left her silently screaming inside for help.
In fact, she kept searching outside herself for happiness, but instead was becoming more unhappy, restless, stuck, and burned out.
DEEP DOWN SHE DESIRED FREEDOM MORE THAN ANYTHING.
She needed a break ….from herself and from this pattern she kept living…pushing the boulder up the hill over and over and over.
Life became monotonous, lackluster, and joyless.
She then stepped off to the side and let the boulder roll down the hill, and before she knew it she was coming in for her energy healing and life mastery coaching session, dancing, doing a little jig and feeling free.
She was happy, carefree, joyful, ecstatic. She felt she was getting her groove back.
She made the SOUL connection!
She was able to reclaim her life, her energy, her time, and her joy.
In short, she was able to liberate herself from her inner chains and unleash towards her soul…and her life is becoming her own.
By investing in herself at a high level, she proved to herself that she was deserving and worthy of her desires. Which for most of us, would feel backwards.
How many of us feel we have to prove to ourselves, the world, and others that we are deserving of our desires.
S gave herself what she wanted and what made her happy…freeing herself from the inner critic and people pleasing that came so natural for her, but felt so joyless and frustrating.
Instead she:
· Created a new dream home,
· Left a business that was no longer fulfilling
· Gave herself time to just BE without obligations, pressures, nor judgment
· Explored what her soul is calling her towards.
For the frist time in forever she stopped doing for others what she felt she was expected to do. Living for others rather than for herself.
The true desires that speak to you from your soul aren’t joyless, nor hard to achieve.
When S took time to pause, play, be…pretty much get out of her own way of forcing, proving, and performing, she gave herself space for grace to come in.
It’s SO easy to say yes to responsibilities, yes to kids, yes to making money and then realize another year has gone by – and we wonder why we still feel unhappy, dissatisfied, or blah.
For women it is too easy to feel as if we are on the outside of our lives, looking in, wondering where we have gone.
If your head and heart have been in conflict, you know the struggle I’m talking about: the deep suffering that comes from that conflict… and the fear of letting things drop away… the free of losing control…and the fear of the unknown.
Can you relate?
We call ourselves back home inside, within, by taking time to RELEASE that which no longer serves us, but has served us up until now.
My invitation to you:
Let your body and soul lead you!
Your mind, with support, will begin to trust the guidance. You’ll feel the relaxation, resilience, and trust you desire.
Your intuition will come back – or if you never recognized it before…you will now.
You truly will feel freedom and joy in more areas of your life. From relationships to career, to entrepreneurship, to money, to creativity to health.
Plus, more energy and mental freedom to give yourself grace to create from your heart’s desires. You are exactly where you need to be, questioning if the way you’ve been doing it is the way forward for you.
To supporting you to Ignite The Light Within You,
Amy
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